What is Coaching? ​

What Is Coaching, Really?

Life coaching is a guided process for growth and self-development. It takes place in one-on-one sessions between you and your coach. These are typically hour-long weekly meetings fully dedicated to you: your desires, thoughts, challenges, goals, and strengths.

This is a safe space to reconnect with yourself, to see things from a new perspective, and to uncover what drives you, what holds you back, and what might help you move forward.

Throughout the process, we build a roadmap tailored to you – one that is realistic, supportive, and sometimes gently challenges you to step out of your comfort zone in service of what matters most to you.

Think of it like having a personal trainer for your mind and soul. Just like you’d hire a trainer to help you get stronger physically, a good coach will help you strengthen your thinking patterns and habits, so you can move toward the results you want to see in your life.

One key thing to remember: coaching is based on the belief that you are the expert on your own life. All the answers are already within you – my role is to help you hear them more clearly, ask the right questions, reflect your truth back to you, and help translate insight into action.

In essence, coaching draws on four core pillars:

  • Deep listening – not just to what you say, but to what you mean and may not yet have words for
  • Reflecting and asking sharp, honest questions
  • Focusing on your present experience, with an eye toward your desired future
  • Setting clear, practical actions to help you move forward
What is Coaching? ​

Who Is Coaching For?

The temptation is to say: “coaching is for everyone.” But that wouldn’t be fully accurate.

Coaching is for people who are ready to commit to themselves. For those who want to take responsibility, look inward, and start moving – even in small steps – toward a life that feels more aligned.

It’s a collaborative process. I bring tools, experience, presence, attention to nuance, and the ability to ask powerful questions – some gentle, some more direct or challenging. What you bring is equally important: your willingness, your readiness, and your choice to stop settling for what no longer fits.

There comes a moment when you can no longer ignore the potential that lives inside you.

If that moment has arrived – that’s where we begin.

So, What Can Coaching Help With?

Coaching is relevant in any area where there’s a gap between where you are and where you want to be. People often seek coaching when they’re at a crossroads or navigating change.

Here are just a few examples of topics we might explore together:

  • Business growth – refining your vision, creating a roadmap for change, scaling your business, addressing marketing blocks
  • Career – finding meaningful work, pursuing promotion or a shift to self-employment, improving work/life balance
  • Personal life – building confidence, improving relationships, reducing stress, deepening self-awareness
  • Clarity and purpose – identifying your core values, defining a life vision, reconnecting with meaning or passion

If you’ve ever found yourself thinking:

  • “I want to change something, but I don’t know where to start.”
  • “I feel like I’m wasting my potential.”
  • “I know what I need to do – I’m just not doing it.”

 

...then coaching might be exactly what will help you to shift into motion.



How Is Coaching Different from Therapy, Consulting, or Mentoring?

If you’ve never experienced coaching before, it’s easy to assume it’s just another form of therapy or advising. But each of these is a distinct approach with different goals, methods, and audiences.

Therapy Focuses on processing the past, emotional healing, and supporting mental health. Therapists are clinically trained and often work with trauma, emotional distress, or psychological conditions. Therapy tends to be deep, emotional, and sometimes long-term.

Consulting Involves providing expert advice or solutions. A consultant typically brings specialized knowledge and tells you what to do. It’s a one-directional process, where the expert answers and you apply.

Mentoring Centers on personal experience. A mentor has “been there” and offers guidance based on their own journey, often in a professional context. The relationship is more informal and based on example and storytelling.

Coaching Is none of the above – and that’s its power. I don’t arrive with ready-made answers. Instead, I help you clarify your own questions and find your own truth.

Coaching is forward-looking and growth-oriented. My role is to reflect, challenge, support, and help you reconnect to your agency and direction. It’s a proactive process grounded in responsibility and collaboration.

An Important Clarification
Coaching is not a replacement for therapy. While therapy may focus on emotional healing or deep psychological processing, coaching focuses on growth, clarity, and action. If you’re currently facing significant emotional challenges or are working with a therapist, we can check in with your therapist together, to see whether they feel coaching would be a supportive addition at this time.
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How Long Until I See Results?

Let’s be honest – change takes time. Sustainable transformation doesn’t happen overnight. It unfolds gradually, through daily choices, consistent effort, and ongoing self-awareness. Research shows it takes an average of 66 days to turn a new behavior into a habit.* That said, many clients report feeling a shift after just a few sessions. You might notice:
  • Greater clarity about what really matters to you
  • Relief from mental overwhelm or indecision
  • A sense of calm where there was once only tension or frustration
  • Renewed confidence and motivation to take action
  In coaching, we’re not “fixing” you – we’re building momentum with what already exists within you. So even if it takes time to reach the big goals that brought you here, your inner experience often shifts sooner.

A standard coaching process typically spans around 3 months (12 weekly sessions), though deeper work can take longer depending on your goals and needs.

What matters most isn’t just what happens in the sessions – it’s how you show up between them in your day-to-day life. The more committed you are to the work, the more you’ll see. And sometimes, the biggest breakthroughs come in the subtle shifts: a different kind of conversation, a boundary you finally set, a choice that feels aligned.

Growth begins the moment you commit to yourself.

What Does the Process Actually Look Like?

Sessions are held weekly and last about an hour. They can take place in person or online, depending on location and preference.

Each meeting is a dedicated time to pause, reconnect to your goals, explore challenges, and plan your next steps.

While every coaching journey is unique, we do have a flexible structure that guides the process. Often, we begin with a deep dive into where you are now – your current experience (with some reflection on the past), values, and strengths. Only then do we clarify the goals, surface the internal or external obstacles, and start crafting aligned solutions.

Throughout, we use a variety of tools and methodologies – from strategic thinking frameworks to mindfulness techniques and applied exercises. The approach is always tailored to you: your rhythm, your goals, your personality.

Between sessions, you’ll receive some focused assignments or reflections. These aren’t homework in the traditional sense – they’re practical actions to help integrate insights into real-life shifts. This in-between work is often where much of the real transformation happens.

And all along the way, I’m here to support, challenge, encourage, and help you stay aligned with what truly matters to you.

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What Results Can I Expect from Coaching?

When coaching is grounded in meaningful goals and deep personal engagement, it can have a wide-reaching impact on both your inner world and daily functioning. Research shows that effective coaching can lead to higher energy levels, increased confidence, stronger decision-making, and measurable reductions in stress (ICF Global Coaching Client Study, 2009; Theeboom, Beersma & van Vianen, 2014). Many clients also report:
  • Clearer focus and direction
  • Greater ease in setting and maintaining boundaries
  • Improved sense of agency and personal leadership
  • Enhanced well-being and resilience in the face of change

    Ultimately, coaching helps you access more of who you are, so you can live, lead, and choose from a stronger, steadier place within yourself.

Why Is Coaching So Effective?

Simply put: because it meets you exactly where you are and builds from there.

But more than that – coaching turns insight into action. Unlike a motivational podcast, a self-help book, or a thoughtful friend, coaching is a structured, intentional process with clear goals, sharp listening, and questions designed to challenge your current way of thinking.

It’s a space that balances support with accountability: a safe place to bring your truth, and also a gentle (or not-so-gentle) push toward real change.

Another key element is structure. Regular sessions, clear goals, and an ongoing sense of partnership create momentum. And then there’s accountability: the knowledge that you’re not only showing up for yourself, but also for the process, for the coach, and for what you said you wanted. That alone can be a powerful catalyst for action – especially on the days when it would be easier to give up or fall into procrastination.

It’s that delicate balance between compassion and challenge, presence and purpose – and that’s where the real magic begins.

Coaching Through Change

Change is inevitable – whether you choose it or it arrives uninvited. Career shifts, personal transitions, big decisions, difficult conversations – these are moments that call us to pause, reflect, and choose how to move forward.

And while you can face these moments alone – you don’t have to.

Coaching offers a space to think out loud, receive support, gain clarity, and shape intentional steps forward.

Whether you’re navigating a career pivot, seeking more stability, adjusting your lifestyle, or figuring out your next chapter – coaching can help you move through this period with more clarity, confidence, and direction.

*Phillippa Lally et al., European Journal of Social Psychology (2009)

Feeling like it’s time to move forward? Come explore the coaching packages and choose what’s right for you.

Not sure if you’re ready to commit to a full process? You’re invited to a Clarity Session – a chance to experience the approach from the inside, get a real feel for it, and choose the path that fits you best.

F.A.Q

When will coaching help me?

Coaching can be incredibly effective if you’re ready to grow and make meaningful changes in your life. Whether you’re looking to transform a specific area, need a push to pursue your dreams, or want to finally execute a plan you’ve been putting off, coaching might be the right fit for you.

To truly benefit from coaching, you need to be willing to engage in personal work and commit to a step-by-step process that moves your life forward. Your active commitment is the key to creating meaningful and lasting change!

While coaching may occasionally explore the past, its primary focus is on the present and the future. Through thoughtful questions, we’ll uncover your true desires and create a course of action to help you achieve them.

Unlike counselling or therapy, coaching emphasizes creating a concrete, actionable plan to help you move toward your goals and become the best version of yourself.

Let’s be honest—change takes time.

How much time? Research shows that, on average, it takes more than two months before a new behaviour becomes automatic—66 days to be exact. *

So, when it comes to creating a new habit, changing your mindset, or overcoming limiting beliefs, you’ll need to give yourself an adjustment period to let these changes settle in.

Think of coaching as planting a tree, not a flower. It’s a process that grows slowly but steadily, developing strong, stable roots—with rewards that can last for years.
A typical coaching journey lasts around 3 months (12 sessions), though more in-depth processes may extend by a month or two (depends on your wants and needs).

That said, you will begin to experience changes long before reaching your ultimate life or business goals.

The secret? It depends on you.

The real transformation happens between our sessions. How deeply you engage with the tools, lessons, and insights provided—and how committed you are to applying them in your life—will determine the speed and depth of your progress. 

Commitment. Is. Key.

If you’re choosing to embark on this journey, make sure you have the time, energy, and willingness to invest fully. This is a gift you’re giving yourself, so use it wisely. 

Once you immerse yourself, you’ll start to see results. You’ll begin noticing shifts in your perspective and attitude. Even before reaching those big goals—the ones that inspired you to start this journey—you’ll uncover unexpected benefits, picking fruits you hadn’t realized were there, just waiting for you.

That’s the beauty of shining a light on your consciousness: what is illuminated, grows.
Coaching provides the guidance and space to explore your thoughts, beliefs, and goals in a way that feels authentic to you. Progress will emerge naturally—but only if you commit.

And when you do, the results will reveal themselves.

Both life coaching and business coaching are powerful tools for growth, but they focus on different aspects of your personal and professional journey. Understanding their distinctions can help you determine which approach aligns best with your current needs and goals.

Life coaching focuses on empowering you and guiding you through personal challenges in various areas of your life—from improving relationships and communication to discovering your unique voice and fostering better health, confidence, or mindset. This is a good choice when your primary goals are centred on personal well-being and growth.

Business coaching focuses on your career, business, and professional aspirations. It is a 1:1 tailored process, designed to strengthen your leadership skills and address unique challenges within your company. Whether you’re planning your career goals or a career change or aiming to grow and enhance your business, coaching provides a powerful tool for progress. Engaging in business coaching can deepen your self-awareness and help you become a more confident, effective leader.

In both cases, rather than making decisions for you, the coach helps reflect on the course of action, offering fresh insights and an outside perspective on various topics.

While both aim to support growth and improvement, there are two main key distinctions:

  1. Focus of attention
    The main difference lies in where the process is targeted. Business coaching centers on the individual—the business owner or manager, emphasizing personal and professional development to help the client become a more effective leader, communicator, and decision maker. In contrast, business consulting is focused on the business itself, addressing tangible needs and offering practical solutions—like optimizing operations, improving effectivity, or implementing new systems or ideas.

Approach to advice
A business coach operates on the premise that clients are the experts of their own business, using questions to uncover new perspectives and clarity to address challenges. Coaching encourages clients to find answers within themselves. Business consulting, on the other hand, involves providing actionable advice and solutions, often supported by structured plans tailored to the business’s needs and the owner’s wants.

In practice, coaching and consulting often overlap. My approach combines elements of both, acknowledging that as a small to medium business owner, you are your business. Similarly, as a manager, your personal traits significantly influence your leadership style. I take a holistic point of view, addressing both personal and professional dimensions to identify and prioritize areas for growth.


When clients require both strategic direction and personal support—for example, in areas like resilience, time management, engagement, leadership development, or self-esteem—different methods and perspectives are applied based on your specific needs.

The guiding principle is always to prioritize what best serves your goals. Throughout the process, we maintain an open and ongoing dialogue—your feedback is essential to ensure tailored guidance and achieve the best possible results.

With a B.A. in Social Sciences (Psychology, Sociology, and Anthropology) and an M.A. in Organizational Specialization, I come with knowledge of both individuals and systems—and how those two meet. Using different assessment tools, we’ll begin by analyzing your unique business or professional situation to create a clear plan for achieving your objectives.

Here are just a few examples of areas where I’ve provided consulting:

  • Enhancing communication styles for managers and creating effective pitches.
  • Developing social media strategies to increase engagement.
  • Writing actionable business plans.
  • Talent management- Identifying future leadership within the organization.
  • Assessing yearly income patterns and planning strategically for upcoming seasons.

These are just a few examples, as my approach is always tailored to align with your specific needs and objectives.

That’s perfectly fine! This is exactly why I offer a free discovery call. I believe the best way to understand if we’re a good match is by having an actual conversation and making a real connection. It’s an opportunity for us to explore your situation, understand your needs, and see how I can best support you in reaching your objectives. If your needs align better with another professional, I’ll happily recommend other services. My ultimate goal is to provide genuine value and help you thrive.

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